Hey darlings,am here again..and today I didn't go to work so I just dey bed dey chill and I thought to write about something that has being on my mind.
So I met a guy online...on one of this social network which is exclusively for meeting people and making friends, truth be told,most of the people on this sites are usually mediocre....(sorry if that offended anyone but that's how I feel)…like its hard to meet people wey no know pass to ask you where you stay and if you can visit them or to send them your pictures...personally, i know if i would delete a guy or no even reason am by the third sentence, I like it when I am able to have a decent conversation with a guy and I actually did with this guy.
Now, this is not a romantic story, I like the guy doesn't mean I want to date him or anything like that, I just like the fact that I can talk to him without rolling my eyes as a result of his inability to maybe understand me or his bad English.
But if this was to continue and let's say we start developing feelings for each other and even start dating, and you realize that the guy still frequents that online site where you guys met, if na me ooo, it would bother me because I mean, if you are dating me,then dude you found what you are looking for, so why the hell do you need to go back there...and knowing the winches in my village, they will put the idea that I am probably not the only one he met on there and dating, and if a girl decides to confront the guy, it would sound somehow because he met your ass on there....
See,that's the reason online dating is not clear cut, I mean I have seen in Bella naija, couples that met online and got married,but we all know its not by marriage, he marry you finish, e kon go back to the site he met you, and then what....hypertension will now be your second name....mtschewww
A friend of mine was like, a a girl shouldn't care what her man does on sites like that cos it puts ideas in her head, well I don't want to wake up one morning and realize that my husband doesn't want me anymore because of a girl he met on the site where he also met you...I mean I don't know oooo
As far as am concerned,finding my soul mate online is on a higher probability of not happening unless God wants it like that,because nobody is loyal,and its not as if..if you meet a guy on the road or anywhere else and y'all start dating,he wouldn't cheat too, its just really obvious and worrisome....oh well,like I always say,this world is too messed up abeg, and do whatever makes you happy now...at this particular moment....if to say I dey take my own advice na...e for good.
Later hunnays.......
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