Sunday, September 7, 2014

COULD I BE HATING

Am sure y'all are wondering why i am asking this question......shey?, of course I will tell you, if I no tell una who again I wan tell, abi..... Anyway I have this friend, yea? and we used to be real close, but you know as girls things dey be na.......after a quarrel, we no kon close again but we still dey hail each other once once....

How is my friend related to this story, well, i see her pictures for Facebook and she looks pretty much gorgeous in all of them, my first instinct is to like the picture....( P.S, this is girl code, you shouldn't have close friends on Facebook and most of your pictures are" likeless", I mean if you be my friend for instagram and I post picture even if na wowo picture, you gats no choice but to like the picture, no questions asked, at least that's what i believe and practice).....

Back to the story ooo...ehen, so my first instinct like I said is to like the picture but then ify being ify, a thought crosses my mind....why in the hell should I like the picture, I mean, all the pictures wey I don put for both instagram and Facebook, omo babe never like anyone so why should I.....I am such a fan of do me I do you, with me if you give 100%, then that's what you are gonna get, if any lesser, then so be it.....

But then the conscience sets in, as always( glad i have still have one by the way), and I say to myself...ify, this isnt such a big deal, no be to just like the picture make the matter rest for there...at least for my mind, because it could be that she doesn't even care whether I like the picture or not... bad as e bad, all this Facebook boys must still like the picture, and also it might mean that I still hold a grudge and maybe am hating....and I will just be there carrying unnecessary load on my mind...making my mind go on a journey, wey no get head.....

Do you think am a hater, or you are also a fan of do me I do, God know go vex......I know say as some of my friends read this post, them go either dey find who I dey talk about or they wonder whether na them e dey about.....but my real pallies will always fall into the category of the former rather than the later....and for real, am not throwing shade on anybody, I just feel like we Nigerian girls dont really know what real friendship entails....even me wey dey talk, am not always a stellar friend but I try to show my friends as much love as I can because I have come to realize that life is indeed short and if you no tell person wey u love say you love am, just like African china said....well you damn well will regret it and that is for sure....

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